"The Lord punishes us by the fulfillment of our desires"
(Eastern wisdom)
Dear friends, I propose to continue the conversation about desires. The article "Make a wish before bed" caused mixed reviews:
“a few months ago I coded myself for rejuvenation ... She said the phrase:“ I am getting younger! ”... And, indeed, I became much ...”,
“you need to be careful in your desires, the main thing here is not to harm”,
“Your desires must still be commensurate with the possibilities and ethics”,
“You still need to be able to make wishes, because their execution can sometimes have unexpected consequences.
In this article: the rules for making wishes, how to dream correctly so that the fulfillment of a dream brings satisfaction, not disappointment; ethics and safety of desires for the world around.
How to dream right
Rule 1 Desire to be written down, recommend many rituals and techniques for the fulfillment of the plan. An idea put on paper takes on a concrete form, clarity and completeness. This means that it is easier for our subconscious and the Universe to understand what we really want.
Rule 2 The desire must be formulated correctly and clearly. There are enough examples when the incorrect formulation of the hidden gave a result that was far from expected:
one lady dreamed of going on a cruise. After a while, life turned out so that she really went on a liner around the world ... as a cleaner.
The woman dreamed of inserting new teeth. An accident happens to her, her teeth are knocked out so successfully that the dentist admires: “How wonderful your teeth were knocked out! We will insert new ones without any problems.
A married couple could not decide to start repairs in the apartment, there was constant talk about a new false ceiling. At one "beautiful" moment, the ceiling in the living room collapsed, and they unwillingly had to make urgent repairs and a new ceiling.
Rule 3 The wish must have specific deadlines. If you are planning to buy a house, make repairs, buy a car, lay down the exact period or date. Example: "I buy a car in September 2013."
Rule 4 Desire is written in the present tense."I'll buy a house" is the wrong wording. “I am buying a house in October 2013” is correct.
Rule 5 Denial and doubt are forbidden! Particles “not” and the word “I will try” are avoided.
Few examples:
“I don’t want to smoke anymore” is not true, it will be correct: “I become healthier every day, giving up bad habits.”
“I will try to eat less tomorrow to become slimmer” - it’s not right, it will be true: “My weight is normalizing, I have a great figure.”
“I don’t want to be alone” is changed to “I love and am loved.”
Rule 6 The sincerity and importance of desire for you personally. The desire should be yours, and not for the sake of dad, mom, society.
For example: The boy writes down the desire “I want to become a famous football player”, but he likes music more. But he loves his dad very much, an avid fan who, from childhood, gave his son to the football section in order to grow a champion out of him.
This is a mistake, the Universe cannot be deceived by a “fake” desire.
Rule 7 The desire should be about yourself and for yourself.
“My son entered Moscow State University”, “My husband won the Jackpot”, “my daughter got a salary increase” - such desires are useless.
Focus your dreams on yourself: “I help my son with all my strength to go to college.”
Rule 8 Details and emotions are very important. When writing down your wish, include as many details as possible. If you are "buying a car," write its color, model, and so on. Imagine how you feel when you buy a car. And write them down too.
Real life example: a young lady dreamed of a digital camera. In a magazine with photographs, she chose a model, wrote down all its characteristics in her desire and pasted a photograph of the device. After a short time, she rendered a serious service, and in gratitude she was presented with a camera of exactly THE model that she described in her desire.
Just a coincidence? Hardly.
Rule 9. Visualization of what you want. Imagine your dream to the smallest detail so that the desire is fulfilled as accurately as possible.
Rule 10. Usually at least 21 days. Be patient and help your subconscious and the Universe with concrete actions. If you aspire to start your own business, but you lack the knowledge, educate yourself in this area.
Rule 11. Ethical desires."I wish I could rob a bank to become rich." “I want to become the head of the department, if only Yegorych was sent to retire.” Such desires can turn against those who make them. After all, evil always returns, even uttered in thoughts.
Rule 12. Read more about the self-hypnosis technique.
Rule 13 looking at which, you will remember what was hidden and once again present a visualization picture.
Rule 14. Desire must be one. If you have many desires, then the strongest will be fulfilled or nothing will be fulfilled. So choose the most important. Learn more about how to make wishes one by one in the video at the end of the article.
Rule 15. Security of desire for the surrounding world.
End any wish you write with the phrase:
“Let the conceived, or something more, enter my life harmoniously, bring happiness and joy to me and everyone whom the desire touches”.
The words "something more" give the universe freedom for you. Perhaps the World will give you the opportunity to relax on the shores of not the Black, but the Red Sea.
When your wish comes true, do not forget to express gratitude to all participants in the process, starting with yourself and ending with the Higher Power, which accepted and fulfilled your order.
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How to make a wish so that it comes true?
Many of you have repeatedly been interested in the question of how to make a wish so that it comes true, and moreover, not just make a wish, but exactly how right make a wish so that it comes true, or rather how correctly formulate desire for it to come true.
Important! Before you start formulating wishes, read
Learn more about how to correctly formulate desires so that they come true in this video.
Well, I myself have repeatedly studied this issue - after all, I have a lot of desires. The opinions of the gurus in the fulfillment of desires generally agree, and in this article I will describe in detail all the subtleties and nuances, and as accurately as possible answer the question of how to make a wish so that it comes true.
At the very beginning, I will share my own discovery, which I made myself, watching how my desires were fulfilled.
My discovery:
It is necessary to formulate the desire in such a way that when reading this wording, you have positive feelings and pleasant sensations.
Pleasant sensations can be felt by the body, it must be satisfied with what you have written there. It should rejoice and you will notice it.
How can this be achieved?
The answer is very simple: wish to write in your own words, those that you most often use in everyday life and use your favorite adjectives in large quantities.
How to make a wish so that it comes true: 5 rules
Well, now with an example, I will show you how to use the above rule and other rules, which will help you understand how to formulate a wish so that it comes true.
As an example, let's take desire: to get married.
After that, you will be able to correctly formulate your desire so that it will certainly come true.
1. Seize the moment now
Instead of " I want to marry» write « I'm getting married»
What's in the salt? And that there is no other moment than the moment now. We always live in the now. When your desire is fulfilled, you will realize it at some point in the future, but that moment will be a “now” moment for you.
2. Specify the approximate period
Instead of " I'm getting married» write « I'm getting married this year »
You don't want your wish to come true in 10 years, do you? Of course not, so you should inform your subconscious about it.
You can write both a specific date and a vague one, for example, “until the new year”, “within a month”.
3. Adding specifics
Your desire should be as specific as possible if you know exactly what you want. If you don't know what exactly you want, you should spend more time on it and figure it out for yourself.
It is not in vain that they say “be afraid of your desires”, because if you think of something that is not what you really wanted, you can very much regret it. For example, do not forget to indicate that you want to marry for love and it would not be bad to clarify for whom 😉
So, instead of "I'm getting married this year" we write " I am getting married this year for the man who loves me and loves me, the perfect man for me »
Find out how I make my wishes come true on my
4. Add emotions
The easiest way to make your desire come alive and emotional is to add adjectives. More.
What will it give? Namely, that by saying your desire in your mind or reading your record, you will be filled with joy. And this is exactly the feeling that pushes your desire to materialize.
So instead of " I am getting married this year to a man who loves me and loves me, the perfect man for me» write « I easy and fast going out happily marry this year to the one who loves me and the one I love is the perfect match for me stunning man».
5. Reformulate in our own words
If you really want to make a wish correctly, that is, so that it comes true, you should rewrite it in your own words, as I wrote at the beginning of the article.
So I write instead of " I am easily and quickly getting married happily this year to a man who loves me and is loved by me, a perfect fit for me, an amazing man" that's what:
« I am very simply and quickly getting married to an amazing man this year and we love each other very, very much »
(and you write in your own words)
Well, I have described all 5 rules on how to correctly formulate your desires so that they come true.
I will only add that your desire should be written down on paper - this is a must.
A thought process is constantly carried out in the head of each person. Every second there are a large number of different desires. What chaos would be created in the world if they immediately came true. Therefore, in order to realize what you really want, you need to try. A person highly appreciates the realization of the goal for the realization of which he had to fight. How to make a wish to make it come true?
Often an individual has a large number of desires, and he wants to realize everything as quickly as possible. However, it is necessary to choose one of the most important things for you from the entire large list and ask for its execution from.
This is necessary so that the higher forces focus on it, and not waste time and energy in vain. It is also necessary to figure out for yourself whether you truly desire this, or is it a fleeting whim that will quickly pass.
Try to make a wish in accordance with the lunar cycles and rhythms. For example, on a waning moon it is better to want to get rid of something, but on a growing addition.
A good help in achieving the designated goal will be the daily reading of prayers. Each person, in accordance with his confessional affiliation, can do this.
It must be taken into account that if you have taken on the work of daily prayer practice, then you need to carry it out daily, never interrupting, until you get a result. Thus, your body tunes in to certain vibrations of the Universe, changes from within and helps you get what you ask for.
Basic Rules
Before you start formulating and realizing your dream, you need to learn the following rules:
- the wish must be clearly stated
Your goal must be reflected on a piece of paper. Before you begin this process, you need to clearly formulate the essence of what you are asking for. No need for ornate phrases and vague expressions. The universe loves specifics, because the essence is hidden behind the play on words.
Fifteen words will be enough to write what you want. If you write less, then your plan will not be fulfilled exactly, if you write too much, then it will take years before what you wrote is realized.
Approach this ritual in a good mood, use only what you like in creating the wish list. You can even decorate it, use colored paste or pencils.
- should only be in first person
Do not shift the responsibility for realizing your hopes to someone else. Thus, you put yourself in a dependent position on - something and block creativity. For example, you need to write "I'm moving up the career ladder" instead of "I'm being promoted." Both expressions display the same result, but they are different. In the first case, the person himself achieved his goal, and in the second he was waiting for help.
When an individual gets something in his life through hard work, then it is greatly enhanced. He does not test before making a decision, and is little dependent on the opinions of others. Therefore, you should formulate what you want in the first person.
- must use present tense
What you want to receive must be written in the present tense. For example, "I'm buying a new apartment." In this way, the Universe will understand that you are in the process of fulfilling your aspiration, and will help you. If you write a wish in the present or past tense, then this can be regarded as the fact that the action has taken place, or you are postponing its execution to an indefinite future.
The universe is an ongoing stream that you can join with the right wording in your desires. For example, the entry “I will lose weight by my birthday” will be incorrect, it will be correct, from the point of view of implementation, to write “I am losing weight and becoming slim and beautiful.”
- exclude negation
Higher powers do not perceive the particle “not” well. Or rather, they do not perceive it at all, so do not use it in the formulation of your wishes. For example, the expression "I have no problems with money" is understood as "I have problems with money." Therefore, in order not to provoke a negative result for yourself, the dream form must be rephrased, for example, “I am rich.”
The “not” particle automatically begins to attract failures, so do not use it when referring to the Universe with innermost desires. Otherwise, it may create problems.
- you can't tell the universe a certain time frame
Higher powers know better when and what to give you, based on the needs at a certain stage of life. We can write out our life in the form of a plan on a piece of paper. However, what we write there will not be necessary for us at a certain life stage in the future, but will come in handy sooner or later. Therefore, you should not drive yourself into certain limits, as the saying goes, "we propose, but God disposes." Therefore, you need to be prepared for the fact that life will make its own adjustments to this very plan, maybe easy, or maybe cardinal.
For this reason, when you write down the request on a piece of paper, then sign at the end "at the right time in the right place."
- the principle of "do no harm to others" must be observed
If you write down a desire, and you yourself imagine how neighbors or relatives will envy a new car or a beautiful fur coat, then it is better to leave this idea right away. Also, you should not wish for something like “let me marry successfully, and my friend Masha remain single.” The negative that you want to happen in other people's lives can happen in your own. For example, Masha may marry late, but successfully, and you will divorce and be lonely until the end of your days.
It is better to wish others happiness and well-being, as no one lives without problems. People are attracted to positive and benevolent personalities like a magnet.
- express your thoughts specifically
When formulating your dream, try to specify what you want to receive. To do this, you can specify the color, size, cost of the item or describe in detail the desired situation in the future. For example, if you want to buy or build a house, then describe it in detail, how many floors, what is the area, color, etc.
However, when drawing up a desire, you should not get too carried away with this and paint it on a whole sheet, going into small details. Otherwise, the execution of the plan may take not a single dozen years.
- the universe needs your help in the implementation of the plan
In order for the request to come true, it is not enough to write it down and put it on the desk, it is necessary to make efforts to implement the plan. In this way, you will help the Universe to speed up the receipt of your request. For example, if you want to become a famous musician, then you need to learn musical notation, and practice every day to improve your skills. If you just sit and wait until the glory falls on you by itself, then you can never wait for this.
You also need to consider that you need to set goals that you can realistically achieve. For example, if you have poor health, then it will be impossible to become an astronaut, or if you have weak muscles and joints, then the path to ballet is ordered for you. Dreaming about the unattainable is not worth it, this can lead to deep depression and disappointment in life. Better consider other more affordable options where you can prove yourself just as well.
Conditions for the fulfillment of a wish
Before making a wish, it is important to learn the following conditions that will help for its further realization:
- wish must be written down
Thought, which is written on paper, takes on a material form. Thus, we send a message to the Universe for the fulfillment of our plan. It is best to do this with a red pen or felt-tip pen, since this color has powerful energy and will allow you to quickly activate the necessary resources of the Universe.
Then wrap the note in red paper or cloth, put it in a closet and try to forget about it. This is necessary so that you do not interfere with your thoughts to the higher forces to fulfill their plans.
When the dream comes true, you need to burn the note, thereby you will give a signal to the Universe that nothing else needs to be done, and the goal has been achieved. Also, this procedure must be done if the note is stale in the closet and the desire is still not fulfilled. Fire can help activate stagnant energy. However, it is necessary to analyze for what reason the requested is not fulfilled, and what you are doing wrong. Perhaps you will eventually come to the decision that you do not need what you have planned at all.
- don't tell anyone about it
All people are different, someone will support in this matter and throw a couple of tips, someone will laugh, and someone may envy. It should not be that the mental energy of other people interferes with the plans of higher powers to realize their plans. By telling the ill-wisher, you can interfere with the Universe in the process of fulfilling the desire and greatly delay its implementation.
When it comes to subtle energies, you need to be careful and not tell anyone until the plan comes true. However, if you have like-minded people, you can try collective making a wish. As practice shows, this method is quite effective, since the energy of several people is involved at once.
- it is necessary to write down the requests in the light of day
It is better to turn to higher powers in the light of day, because at night the dark energies begin to activate, which can also hear and fulfill your request. However, the lord of darkness never does good to people out of principle, so be careful.
- use the automatic writing method
When it is difficult to decide on a desire, the automatic writing method can come to the rescue. This method will allow you to isolate the main idea from the stream of consciousness and focus on it. To do this, you will need a piece of paper and a pen, some use a special table for this purpose.
Relax your body and try not to think about anything, “keep your head empty”, try not to control the movements of your hand, let it automatically display the thoughts that come to your head on paper.
Among the recorded phrases, after, you can highlight the main idea that worries you.
Also for such purposes, the method developed by the famous psychologist Jung, which is called associations, is suitable. A person is told one word denoting an action, an object, a living being, etc., and he answers what sensations he has in connection with this. Then, from the compiled table, you can highlight the main life aspects that concern the individual, and decide on the desire.
- use prayer practice
In order to enlist the support of higher powers, read prayers daily. They produce a great beneficial effect. Thus, you constantly begin to feed on positive energy, health improves, interesting ideas come to mind by themselves. You begin to clearly understand how and what to do to implement your plan, or you can completely abandon this idea.
Persistence is important in fulfilling the sacred. You should not give in to the first difficulties, overcoming them, you gain experience and become one step closer to your desired goal.
Each of us has a cherished desire that we crave to come true. By following simple wording rules when composing a request, we can get what we want much faster. The universe is generous and abundant, you should not limit yourself to the concepts of “wealth is not for me”, “I have been for many years, there will never be love in my life.” With such expressions, you limit the flow of grace into your life and delay the receipt of the desired goal. Be sure that your desire will surely come true, and actively work towards its realization.
The ability to dream seems simple and natural, but many people do not own it. This will happen for various reasons, including low self-esteem, lack of imagination, depression. How to make a wish to make it come true? You need to turn on emotions, believe in the possibility of fulfilling any dream and react in time when the time comes.
How to make a wish to make it come true?
1. Own or someone else's?
2. Acquisition or disposal?
Dreams should be fun. No need to make a wish that involves deliverance, removal, deprivation. For example, one really wants to move to another city, and a person curses his small homeland, formulating a dream “I want to leave Mukhozavodsk”. The desire may come true, but the new place of residence will turn out to be even worse, in fact the dream came true, but did not bring satisfaction.
Here are examples of how to make wishes correctly and incorrectly.
The brighter the thoughts and the more, the sooner the dream will come true.
3. You can only influence yourself.
An important question is what wishes can be made. There is a concept of ecological dreams. It means how safe it is for a stranger. You can’t guess that a particular person will love you or treat you better. First, it is not always useful for ourselves. It is worth remembering past connections, for sure you want to say about some of them “and how I just got in touch with this person.” Secondly, people have the right to decide for themselves whether they like you or not.
But it's all about wording. If you think "people love me", this will be an attempt to influence someone else's. But if you formulate “I attract the love of the people around me”, this is an influence on myself.
How to make a wish?
Before you start dreaming, you need to understand what you really want. To do this, there are a few simple techniques.
1. Automatic writing.
You need to take a piece of paper and a pen, relax, you can turn on the music or sit in silence, light candles or just dim the lights. It is important to simply create an atmosphere in which nothing will distract from the dreaming process. Next, you need to turn off and concentrate on the subconscious. Let desire come from within, bypassing censorship. Desires can seem reckless, unrealizable, stupid, wildly simple.
When the list is ready, you can analyze what has been written. This contributes to a better understanding of oneself.
2. Perfect day.
This exercise can be done in writing, orally or mentally. Everyone does what is convenient for him. Details are important in this technique. You need to think through to the smallest detail how the day would go. What time does a person wake up, where, with whom. What does he do after that, where does he go. If for work, then what kind, what exactly does he do there, what will he do after work. Little things like food, the number of rooms in the house, even the cup in which there will be morning coffee are important.
To make it easier, you can make a questionnaire for yourself, which will take into account all the nuances. And then arrange an interview for yourself.
To bring even more benefits, the exercise must be done in writing, at the end of it you need to analyze what needs to be done so that each item from the ideal day comes true, and then try to translate at least some of them into. That's why the details matter. A person can change jobs on the same day and will not be able to, but to start drinking tea in the morning instead of coffee or to arrange evening jogging is quite.
3. Meditation.
This technique has two varieties:
- Listen to yourself. This technique is more complicated, since you don’t have to visualize anything, you need to completely and ask your subconscious to show your true desires. This technique can take a long time, as not everyone will be able to catch the right wave quickly.
- Talk to yourself. You need to ask yourself leading questions, as in the “Perfect Day” method, only here everything is concentrated on the images. You need to mentally create a space in which it is comfortable and be in it. Try to smell, texture, hear sounds.
4. Recharging.
Before you make a wish, you need to think about whether there is energy for its fulfillment. For example, I really want to become a marketing director and proclaim a department of 10 people. It will be difficult to do this when your head is full of thoughts about children, an unsuccessful personal life,. If energy is wasted on solving problems, turmoil or other desires, you need to make up for its losses. You can do this in several ways:
- Connect to egregore. It is necessary to divide desires into those that can be fulfilled independently and those that require the help of the Higher Forces. Who it will be depends on faith (God, the Universe, the spirit of the deceased grandmother). Whatever one believes in will work. This is a very useful technique as it helps to let go of desire. For example, you want to get married and build a career. You can give marriage to the will of providence, but for now do advanced training. How to make a wish so that it will definitely come true? Clearly formulate that you do not refuse it, but give it into the hands of the Universe.
- Make yourself a weekend. For a busy person, this is a luxury, but worth a try. It is better to leave the city, after warning relatives that you will not answer phone calls. Complete isolation and relaxation. It is important at this time not to think about work or personal life, you need to completely reset.
When thinking about how to make a wish to make it come true, you first need to make sure that the dreams are environmentally friendly and belong to you. Next, you need to choose the way of dreaming that is most suitable, and.
